Why Have a Wedding Shower ?

A wedding or bridal shower is a fun way for a woman's friends and family to celebrate her, prior to the wedding. As they "shower" her with gifts, they prepare her to start her own household.

What is the history behind wedding showers ?

Historically, wedding showers started when women wanted to marry "unsuitable husbands" and thus their families refused to provide a dowry. Friends of the couple gathered to pitch in and make up for the lack of a dowry by helping them set up house. Today, they are a time to share stories, eat great food, and pay special attention to the bride.

Who Should Throw The Wedding Shower ?

Typically, the maid of honor hosts the bridal shower, unless she is a member of the bride's immediate family. Many etiquette guides frown on a family member hosting, because it looks like she's trying to get gifts for the bride.

Where Should I Have a Wedding Shower ?

Anywhere from a bridesmaid's home to a favorite restaurant, a park, a beach, or the zoo. You can also choose to have theme showers at paint-your-own-pottery studios, beauty salons, galleries or other favorite party spots.

When to Have the Wedding Shower ?

Anywhere from 6 months before to the week of the wedding. If many guests are traveling from out of town, it may make sense to have it close to the wedding, so they can attend. Otherwise, it can be nice to have it four months or more before the wedding, so that it will add to anticipation, without adding to a bride's last minute stress.

Who Should You Invite ?

Start off by asking the bride for a guest list! (If it's a surprise, talk to her mother, or her fiancé). You'll want to make sure that you're not inviting anyone who won't be invited to the wedding, and the only way to know that is to ask directly. Remember to invite close female relatives of both the bride and groom.

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